Today, a friend who has also lost a lot of weight over the past year mentioned she too is unhappy in her marriage and thinks it may be time to call it quits (as I recently did). So my question today is, why do former fatties end their long term relationships? Do we think we are better than our partner?
The simple answer...maybe. I am sure there are those relationships were one person feels superior to the other for their weight loss, and I find that sad. In my case and maybe the case of my friend, I think it is you realize that you may have been fat because the relationship made you unhappy.
Now don't get me wrong, I was fat because of my actions, I stuffed my face and was inactive. But maybe I did those things to fill the void I had in my heart. Maybe I was hoping the chocolate cake would love me back and it never did. Well it loved my ass because it stuck to it like glue. LOL
Everyone wants to think of the fat person as happy but fat people have to be some of the saddest people around. Food can not fill the emotional void.
Sorry to be sooo serious this am everyone. Just thought I would put this out there for you to ponder this Sunday morning.
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